I must just be lucky, because I don't think I've ever had to deal with any of those issues. I am a minor slob, and that causes friction and I know it bugs my partner, but I just can't seem to change that.

I'd say the only dealbreaker for me is lack of respect, which I suppose #2 gets at. But not just for my time.

I love a goofball, but like anything, if there isn't any balance, it's not so great after a while.