1. I could care less about gaping. Whatever. I like to look at beautiful women too. 2. I don't think these are the same thing. Expecting me to always be the one to get in touch and never showing up on time are big, big problems for me in a friendship, because I think they're indicative of lack of respect. If I'm not worth keeping in touch with unless I do all the work, or my time is so worthless that it's ok to stand me up in Starbucks for 45 minutes, then they don't think much of me. But I don't see what that has to do with commitment. In fact, the best way to scare me away is to get too heavy too soon. I do not want to hear that l-word for a couple of years! 3. That's a personality thing. I've never been attracted to goofballs, but that's my taste. 4. Ok, yeah, hygiene is a turn off. I'll give them that. 5. You mean if I'm bored or they are? If I'm bored, yeah, that's a dealbreaker.
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1. I could care less about gaping. Whatever. I like to look at beautiful women too.
2. I don't think these are the same thing. Expecting me to always be the one to get in touch and never showing up on time are big, big problems for me in a friendship, because I think they're indicative of lack of respect. If I'm not worth keeping in touch with unless I do all the work, or my time is so worthless that it's ok to stand me up in Starbucks for 45 minutes, then they don't think much of me. But I don't see what that has to do with commitment. In fact, the best way to scare me away is to get too heavy too soon. I do not want to hear that l-word for a couple of years!
3. That's a personality thing. I've never been attracted to goofballs, but that's my taste.
4. Ok, yeah, hygiene is a turn off. I'll give them that.
5. You mean if I'm bored or they are? If I'm bored, yeah, that's a dealbreaker.