The theme I see in this comments is that most of these could problems IF taken to their logical extremes. That said, I think that's true of almost any issue.
I also agree that while I wouldn't call #2 commitment phobia, the behavior described is unacceptable to me with friends, much less people I am dating.
Hygiene is the most obvious dealbreaker, to me. Beyond that... it's hard to say. I think honesty is probably my biggest issue, but random abandonment (as in, disappearing for days at a time, especially if we were mid-conversation on IM or whatever) was a huge problem in one relationship that I had and has turned into a bit of a trigger for me. But I think that might fall into the #2 taken to extremes category.
Interesting topic. I've been thinking about it a lot.
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I also agree that while I wouldn't call #2 commitment phobia, the behavior described is unacceptable to me with friends, much less people I am dating.
Hygiene is the most obvious dealbreaker, to me. Beyond that... it's hard to say. I think honesty is probably my biggest issue, but random abandonment (as in, disappearing for days at a time, especially if we were mid-conversation on IM or whatever) was a huge problem in one relationship that I had and has turned into a bit of a trigger for me. But I think that might fall into the #2 taken to extremes category.
Interesting topic. I've been thinking about it a lot.