2. Failing to keep in touch/show up on time. Mostly it indicates that they're not that into me.
4. Oh boy, yes.
5. Again with the either I'm not that into them, or they aren't that into me thing depending on how you interpret the question.
I'd add...in the poly world: My take on #1 - talking exclusively about the woman you wish you were sleeping with but isn't there at the moment despite the fact that I'm sitting at the table with you having dinner. Hello? Live body here. Invest some attention to the person in front of you if you actually want to be dating. Otherwise I'll figure you're not that into me.
Also a knockout: A monosylabic one sided conversation. I need to get better at open ended questions but really, throw me a bone. If I'm trying to ask you things about you and you don't feel like talking about it...try asking me questions about me? I want someone who is willing to at least meet me halfway.
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Date: 2011-12-15 01:36 am (UTC)4. Oh boy, yes.
5. Again with the either I'm not that into them, or they aren't that into me thing depending on how you interpret the question.
I'd add...in the poly world:
My take on #1 - talking exclusively about the woman you wish you were sleeping with but isn't there at the moment despite the fact that I'm sitting at the table with you having dinner. Hello? Live body here. Invest some attention to the person in front of you if you actually want to be dating. Otherwise I'll figure you're not that into me.
Also a knockout:
A monosylabic one sided conversation. I need to get better at open ended questions but really, throw me a bone. If I'm trying to ask you things about you and you don't feel like talking about it...try asking me questions about me? I want someone who is willing to at least meet me halfway.