Walk in the Glow of Each Other's Majestic Presence

Excerpted from the introduction I wrote for the printed version of my adaptation of Pride & Prejudice:

I’ve always been shy of favorites. People talk about their favorite song, their favorite movie, their favorite book. How on earth do they choose? Is it always their favorite? But I’ve finally had to admit that Pride and Prejudice is probably my favorite book.

I read Pride and Prejudice for the first time when I was twelve years old. On a family vacation, I found a copy on a bookseller’s table at a village market somewhere in Wales, and spent the next few days ignoring my parents from the back seat of our hired car as I was introduced for the first time to Jane Austen’s rich characters and her marvelous wit.

Since then I’ve probably re-read it at least once a year. It has become one of my regular choices when I’m not feeling well, or when I’ve been unhappy or overwhelmed, so in some years I’ve read it two or three times. And when I admit this in public, I am joined by a chorus of fellow-travelers. Pride and Prejudice is on every top ten list of favorite novels of all time.

It can be hard to explain exactly why it’s such a favorite. The story is relatively small and deeply rooted in the particular society of rural England at the turn of the 19th century. It does not deal with grand themes and none of its characters are heroic or unflawed. In fact most of them are quite imperfect, each in their own petty ways, even her protagonists.

Perhaps that is the secret: these characters seem real and by reading about them we can feel that we know them. They are filled with the foibles that make for true individuals. Each is self-absorbed in a particular way—Mrs Bennet’s obsession with the local marriage market, Mr Bennet’s library escape from his own mistakes, Jane’s insistence on the good in everyone, Mary’s longing for accomplishments she lacks the talent to achieve, Darcy’s confidence in his own superiority, Wickham’s clinging to his own likability—the list goes on and on. In the company of these characters we can feel, as Lizzy admits to Jane, that we have not been “so very weak and vain and nonsensical” in comparison, or that if we have, we are at least not alone.

One of the frustrations for the modern reader is the many rules which constrain Austen’s characters and make modern adaptations so very problematic. Why can’t Lizzy just tell all of her suitors to go hang, find herself a nice flat in London, and get a job? Well, because she can’t without exiting the box by which her entire existence is bound. Some readers are rebuffed by these limitations, but I think that for many they are part of the attraction. The game of life in Austen’s work has rules that can seem both quaint and reassuringly solid.

And yet Austen is not chronicling an unchanging society, but one poised at the brink of transformation, in which we cheer the characters on. When Darcy, the example of pride in one’s station, writes to Elizabeth—an unrelated person of the opposite sex—he is committing a major transgression, and in his choice of friends—Bingley is only one generation removed from trade and the Gardiners, with whom we are told he continues to deal famously from a gracious start, are not removed from it at all—he tramples the previously accepted class boundaries, before marrying for a very modern version of love.

Perhaps part of our enjoyment of the story is the quiet revolution it embodies, the idea that major change can stem from such small beginnings.

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And somehow in all of that I forgot to mention that I'm a sucker for romance and the wit is wonderful. I think those are the reasons it's a fun read, but the above are some of the reasons for its staying power.

This meme is going around my f-list and I can't resist.

The Rules: Don't take too long to think about it. Fifteen authors (poets included) who've influenced you and that will always stick with you. List the first 15 you can recall in no more than 15 minutes.

( My list )

The odd thing is that I remember doing this with just ten, but I can't find the entry. Ah, well--it would have been interesting to see how my picks have changed.

As many of you know, I love eggcorns, those wacky re-shapings of familiar words or phrases, often undetectable by spell-checkers. A post tonight on Language Log includes a beautiful (albeit deliberate) one: feint-hearted. For me, the best thing about eggcorns is finding a way in which they actually make sense. Give it a try! Look up three eggcorns in The Eggcorn Database and tell us what the resulting phrase might really mean.

a posable thumb - what every recruiter of hand models looks for, a thumb able to be beautifully positioned and held by its possessor

veil of tears - the blurred vision of a tearful eye

feint-hearted - indicating repeatedly that one is ready for a relationship and then pulling away when presented with a genuine opportunity

This strikes me as a good meme--if anyone feels like picking it up, I think it could be very interesting. The idea is to post three things that you've learned that might seem obvious in retrospect, but are clever and generally useful:

- Microwaving ice cream for 10-20 seconds makes it much easier to serve.

- When re-heating mashed potatoes, adding a little more cream/milk makes them much nicer.

- When putting away leftovers, particularly noodles or rice, transferring them from the little box they came in to a plastic container (for example, the one the soup came in) keeps them from drying out in the fridge.

The Are You Ready to Be a Parent? quiz is actually not a bad checklist.

Also from smackaski
Below is the Entertainment Weekly's list of 100 Classic Movies of the past 25 years.
Bold the ones you've seen, underline the ones you plan to.

( Listy, list, list )

The Big Read reckons that the average adult has only read 6 of the top 100 books they've printed.

1) Look at the list and bold those you have read.
2) Italicize those you intend to read.
3) Underline the books you LOVE.
4) Reprint this list in your own LJ so we can try and track down these people who've only read 6 and force books upon them ;-)

( Because I can't resist a list of books )

"I know very little about some of the people on my friends list. Some people I know relatively well. I read your journals, or we have something else in common, and we chat occasionally. Some of you I hardly know at all. Perhaps you lurk, for whatever reason. But you friended me, and I thank you for your interest in my words.

But here's a thought: why not take this opportunity to tell me a little something about yourself. Any old thing at all. Just so the next time I see your name I can say: "Ah, there's so and so...they enjoy the savory aroma of monkey brains a la mode."

I'd love it if every single person who friended me would do this. Yes, even you people who I know really well. Then, if you like, post this in your own journal and see what gems of knowledge appear."

pulled from gilana...if you're also on her flist, try to tell me something different, please