Define "work"

[lillibet]

Elsewhere, someone was discussing the work that he and his partner are doing to improve/sustain their relationship and someone else commented that if a relationship requires work, then it may not be worth continuing. This led into a discussion of what defines "work," more generally. If you enjoy a process, is it work? If you choose to do something, is it work? Are activities you undertake in pursuit of a hobby work? If you get paid to do something, is that work? If the product of your activity mainly benefits someone else, is that work? What activities do not count as work? What is work?

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Comments

[mangosteen]

I assert that any sufficiently complex and close relationship needs active effort in order to continue and thrive. This may or may not coincide with some other definition of "work". Only weeds grow naturally.

[hammercock.livejournal.com]

Yeah, that.

[schmoomom.livejournal.com]

Thirding that one. Eloquent.